Why do people go to school whether it be college, trade school or on-line.  People go to school so that hopeful they can better themselves so that they can live the life they want.

When you are attending school, other things have to be put on the back burner and during that time you are focused on how much time you are reading your lessons, how much time you are studying the subject at hand.  You put the time in because you want to get a good grade.  Most people want an “A” in class.  An “A” says I know the material and hopeful not just know the material but also understand the material.

If someone gave you a test on your husband or wife, how would you score? Would you get an A? B? C? D? or would you flunk the test?   I know what you think you should receive, however, what would your spouse give you? 

My challenge to you is to become a STUDENT of your SPOUSE.

One definition I looked up said a student is a person formally engaged in learning, a pupil; a person who studies, investigates or examines thoughtfully.

Do you study your spouse, do you know their likes, their dislikes, their goals, their dreams, their fears, and their aspirations? In order to know these things about your spouse, you have to study them, you must seek to understand them, and learn to communicate with them.  No one should know more about your mate than you do.

In order for your marriage to be fulfilling, you must become a student of your spouse to find out what makes them tick and what ticks them off.  Studying your spouse will cause you to have a more intimate relationship with them.  So get to studying!